so picture this, there is this older woman (bout 10 years) that I know, and there is some serious chemistry, it wasnt our first conversation that we had when we noticed this, it was the second, and it got odd quick, because we are both married. Its not like a high-school crush, this is serious, and I want to push these emotions aside, but I've never had to push them aside before, I married the women that I love, and I am very much in love with her, but what are these other feelings that this other women gives me? Pharamones are definately in action around this one, being around her makes me feel like a borderline anxiety attack, but in a feel-good way, and obviously does for her also, just last week she broke the physical bubble and rubbed her hand down my back and gave me a little spank. I loved it too much to tell her it was un-appropriate. so how do I supress these feelings?