The other night, after comming back from a friend's birthday dinner I had to drive my drunk friend home (birthday boy) and my girlfriend and another friend left to go to the library to study for finals. After that, she and a few friends went over to a friend's place to drink and party. Since she was feeling somewhat drunk, she passed out at the friend's place on his bed. Later that night, the friend (who wasn't drunk...) started making moves on her. He started kissing her cheeks and filling up on her. She told him to stop many times but he wouldn't stop. After a few times eventually she gave in. According to her there was no lip contact or any sexual activities... I asked her how she felt when he was making moves on her and she told me that she feels that she didn't particularly enjoy it but she also didn't hate it either. She also said she isn't attracted to him at all but thinks she was sober enough to understand what was happening. What do you guys think? Should I Stay with her and try to work things out or leave her? Btw, we have been on and off for 3 years now and I know I have done some messed up things in the past but I never think of cheating on her. I am still madly in love with her but she doesn't feel the same for me. She always tells me that she doesn't care about me as much as before and that she is confused. I wanted to beat the living hell out of this guy when she told me but then she told me not to do anything or even talk to him because she hasn't talked to him about the matter yet. I have a feeling she just wants to save her own reputation because everyone thinks of her as the "nice, innocent girl" Sorry for making this post so long but its been driving me nuts cause she had the nerve to tell me all this bullshit during finals week and I can't study a damn bit now!