I seek out traits like 1) Hard worker. (in the prenup this is a dual income household. so no fuckin alimony) 2) Hard worker (bitch gotta get of da couch and exercise, I do so should you.) 3) Not as crazy as everyone else's gf. (we know you're crazy. But how crazy are you) 4) No Kids. (I aint the one, Im step daddy. --Too Short; I dont want to have to deal with the dad either. I dont want to pay for it.) By no kids I mean no kids from someone else. I am open to that later. 5)Havent slept w/ my friends (L/T That shit aint going to work; hell, not even short term.) 6) Demonstrate positive decision making skills (Getting DRUNK to tell me you are pregnant is not a good idea and got one girl dumped by me. Im not pro choice or pro life. I am Pro Advantage. I don't want a fucked up kid kuz you are too selfish to make a sacrifice for something you should love already) 7) Selfishness is a big turnoff. (Bitch I aint paying for your shit all the time) 8) Considerate of others. (If you are a jerk to the waitress. You will be a jerk to my friends.) 9) Smart (Yea this ones not going to be number 1. But challenge me a little. College Degree is a plus.) 10) Humble + Shy (Being modest is sexy. Me taking you to the bar only to have you disappear and then find you talking to a guy niether of us know a little later Isnt Sexy. In fact it makes me realize that you are a whore.) 11) If she doesnt like to suck cock thats a deal breaker. if she doesnt like it now, she wont do it ever later. There are a variety of others. Of course the girl being hot is a given. I wont try to get w/ugly ass chicks or fatties. I'm not a 10 but i sure as fuck aint a 2.