Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Arya Stark, Nov 3, 2008.
I always go for clingy, somewhat psycho girls?
You have self-esteem issues and want a woman to be obsessed with you to validate your worth?
you like chocolate covered pretzels and trips to the zoo. you probably sing in the shower.
came in here to post this.
you are playing against tough odds. most girls are just that. so you finding one that is not is harder then you think.
just keep going through the motions until you find the right one.
Yeah...still working on it.
its not easy.
No wonder, I was thinkin I was the same, BTW- my last girlfriend was much more psycho, than clingy!
Well it is probably easier to hook up with a girl that is clingy and/or psycho. Nobody else really wants to date them and they hook up or obsess with the first guy to give them any attention. You aren't going for the challenge of finding that girl you want and instead hooking up with these clingy girls.
It's actually kind of weird because the girl I'm seeing now isn't that clingy, especially compared to my prior relationships. We talk or see each other every day but in the past things were so much worse, I'm honestly not used to it. For the most part, it's great.
Good luck in your search.
I use to go for the clingy psycho girls. The reason for this was that they broke up my day. Just as things got dull something would happen. It made my life more exciting, and when I tell the stories of my past relationships, my friends are always on the edge of their seat wanting to hear more.
In the long run it is not healthy and it does not last. My longest relationship with these types of girls was max 3 months. Now I am with a "sane" girl and we have been dating for awhile now and things are just great.
crazy girls ftl
Ding ding ding! /thread.
That you are a distant person, afraid to get too close.
And that you need to be validated constantly to feel like you are worthwhile.
The damaging part of that is, that eventually the clinginess dies out...the massive ego trips given by said clingy girls thins away to nothing, and in the end you are left empty in the relationship that once had you feeling so high.
what's that from?
What? I didn't see anything about pretzels on your profile. I even did a find just to make sure.