Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by BrewCrew, Jun 28, 2008.
from discussions with guys I think its about the same as if you don't get off. A bit frustrating, but better than nothing and the whole process still feels nice.
A pleasurable build up with no release.
feels like exercise
It feels like sticking you dick in a pool full of venom snakes only to have them snatch your balls. What a let down
I dont' think it's the same for guys. You girls enjoy sex much more even if you don't get off.
Guys don't enjoy sex if they don't get off unless the guy doesn't get off because he's been fucking for so long that his dick just goes numb and he's not going to cum.
That's obviously different from having sex and feeling good and then just stopping.
My gf cums most of the time when we have sex, and she SWEARS that she still enjoys it even when she doesn't. As a guy I cannot relate and I always give her this face when she says she still enjoys it.
However, when she doesn't cum, she says it's not cuz I'm doing something wrong, but just because her body isn't going to cum. I imagine that's like the scenario I described above where I'm not going to cum because I can't cum because my body and dick are tired and worn out.
Or she could just be sparing my feelings and protecting my fragile little ego.
I enjoy sex, wethere i come or not..
not even close to true.
Wow, it really depends.
If there is a lot of foreplay involved or if I get close to a climax but just can't reach it then, yes, I still enjoy it.
If I don't get close to a climax and there is very little foreplay then NO I do not enjoy it.
it feels like sex, but then you don't get off
i don't agree with most women that it's still fun if i don't get off. obviously it feels good, it's sex, but if i don't get off at the end then it's just frustrating. i always get off when we have sex.
Still fun for me, even if no orgasm. My bf still enjoys sex even on the rare occassion where he doesn't get off.
I went many years unfortunately without an orgasm and I still loved sex. Maybe I just got used to it It doesn't frustrate me at all when I don't have one.
i just broke up with the ones who couldn't get me off
still feels good to me. most of the time I do get off, but if I dont I dont feel any less satisfied than if I do. I think its a much bigger deal for guys not to get off during sex than girs.
same for me.
however, it's been years since i haven't been able to get off during sex. i don't think i've done anything differently. maybe i've picked guys that are better at sex? yeah, i really think that's it.
awww... so just exactly what excuse did you give them? certainly you didn't tell them it was due to their performance... or did you?
Don't disagree with me without providing some factual context to support your claim.
"it's not working out"
luckily i wasn't really compatible with most of them anyway so it's not like i had to break up with them solely because of their sexual performance
if you do it well and aren't a douche, it's not a problem.
If you're an ass, and can't get her off, she'll talk about you to her friends on the internet.
I never have came but I still have sex, meaning I like it.
You and my SO are very similar when it comes to this I think Plus, I think in all his other LTR the girls could get off every time, which I can't, and I refuse to lie about orgasming It was pretty hard on his ego at first
But, we've been working on making me cum more consistently, and it's been great. I still don't cum everytime, but it's waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more than I used to EVER cum. The bolded is exactly how I am... I wouldn't really say there is a parallel with your latter description though, at least not for me