i dont know where to start but ill just do it semi-CLIFF NOTES style......here it goes. -about 2months ago, met this this girl at the club---exchanged numbers and next day she called to hang out. -2 weeks later, we met up and realized this girl was really hot, someone i can party with and showing interest in me (i was drunk when i first met her ) -it came down to it as we would talk/text each other every friday/saturday to hang out and meet up at the club/bar (she lives in that area) -a week later, we met up again, and this time alot of physical attraction going on and we were making out, etc----no sex. next day i got a text from her saying she had a great time and loved kissing me. -Fast FWD to 2 weeks ago, on a tuesday-----me and my boys were at a bar and she walked in by herself with her school bag. we saw each other but i gave her the face coz it was out of nowhere.....in MY MIND "ibthischickismeetingupsomeonehereandibustedher".....so i didnt say HI or talk to her AT ALL. she sat in the bar by herself....next thing i know, shes taking down shots after shots.. i grabbed the waitress and had her deliver a note to her sayin "ill see you this weekend". well, she took offense on that and thought shes just my weekend girl. and she kept telling me "its coz youre with your boys" couple days later (saturday).....i still havent heard from her--so i asked the waitress what happened after she gave her the note. waitress told me that "she drank herself to sleep in teh bathroom...she was really pissed off and puked her guts out on her way home" so i called her, she was mad and telling me all this shit----then i gave in and apologized and offered to take her out. but she would let my hopes up that we would hang out----and ditched me. so i told her that ill leave her alone since shes holding too much grudge over this and that i was really sorry of the "MISUNDERSTANDING". she then said "shes over it and we are passed it." then she offered me to go to her apt and watch movie with her. when that day came, she never responded to my text or returned my call (i texted once, and called/leave vm once). (this was thursday last week). i havent heard from her since. what else can i do? i know where she lives (i dont think she knows that i know ) and im thinking of sending her flowers or something to let her know that im serious and i was really sorry. this is just eating me out inside knowing i hurt her that much (i admit im an asshole, but i totally feel bad on what happened).