accepting "it's over" as, it's over. Nowadays, all I've been reading is "we broke up, blah blah blah, what can I do to get her back?!!?!!1111tybillion". I, recently, got sincerely dumped (yeah, right) by a girl who I thought was ideal for me. However, instead of bitching and moaning about the reasons why and how I could try and salvage it, I simply mourned and let it go. So, to the others in here... Why is it, in todays times, harder for people to just 'let them go'?