I just...well I'm having trouble understanding his thought process on this... He was on his way home from work and on the phone with her and they had plans to actually get down with it and have sex. Well, she tells him he better hurry up or she's just going to go on to bed. He ignores that, and makes a few stops, and takes a long time, so of course she goes to bed. She wakes up the next morning with semen all in her panties and on her stomach, not totally dry, but not totally fresh. The assumption: He got home, she was asleep, he tried to wake her, and couldn't so he just pulled her pants down and did the deed anyhow. I know the girl and I know that once she's asleep, she's OUT. There isn't anything in the world that would wake her. She confronted him on it and here's what get's me, well beyond the initial fact that he raped her: He admitted it, he's not sorry, he says they're married and that she should give it up more often, and he's not sorry. He's not sorry, etc. She's completely pissed off. Apparently this isn't the first time this has happened. He thinks because they're married, he has a right to do that to her. She and my wife asked my opinion on it, and I told them rape is rape. She kicked him out of the house and told him to not bother coming home. He got pissed off and said that she's stupid for throwing their marriage away on something so trivial. I just don't understand his way of thinking on it. If he just wanted to get off, why not just jerk off? I can't imagine it being as good as if she was awake and into it. I just can't see how he can't fathom it as what it is: rape. What are your thoughts?