Ok here is my situation...Ill try to keep it as short as possible. 20 years old, male, college... I am a very confident in myself. I dress nice, i drive a nice car, i have a lot of money, i have a great job, i have a decent body. When i walk around or drive around i am a very confident person and think highly of myself. I am always concerned with what people think of me and always try to have a good reputation of myself. When it comes to approaching/making conversation with decent/hot women, its really difficult for me..to the point i dont. I go to parties and i just get too "intimidated" and back out and eventually just leave. I just dont know, i see a decent looking woman and i just dont have the confidence and will power to go over there and introduce myself/make conversation. Hence the 0 sex life ive been having at college. Alcohol wont solve the problem since i dont drink. I work out 3 times a week and its very important to me. This was not a problem coming to a school half across the state, knowing nobody. When i came to college, i was ready to be the center of attention and get to know a lot of women and guy friends as well. I suceeded and made a ton of friends. All of the friends i made that first year, died off real quick...except for my roomate. I have no idea why at all... Do you think i need professional help? or is this an issue i can solve by myself?