So this female friend of mine used to be a party buddy. I'd take her to a friend's house parties and stuff like that, since she was under 21 and couldn't go to the bar. Saw her at the bar over Thanksgiving (we went to the same high school) and talked to her for a bit. I know she had at least 3 beers and saw her do a round of shots with the group she was there with. I'm not really TRYING to get into a relationship or anything with her. Just letting things go with the flow. So this morning I send her an IM about a party at a friend's place. Now she turned 21 back in October. Before she was 21, she would ask me all the time if I knew of any parties or if we could have one at my place. She was a decent drinking buddy. I'm trying to comprehend what she has to do in her spare time. She isn't in school and works at a convienence store here in town? Its like this has been an overnight change. Something is fishy here.