Sup, About 5 months ago i started kickin it with this girl from my college. We saw each other heaps, and it was obvious that she was into me. The problem was, she just broke up with this dude she'd been with for 3 years..And she was scared of him finding out that me and her were getting cosy (hes a bouncer, and i didnt want to get my ass kicked either) so we kept it on the D/L. I know she did break up with him, cos he kept sending her the "i can change" msgs.. Anyway, apart from that, one of her friends kept stirring up shit between us, like "i saw him at the club blahblah" when it was all bullshit. And those rumours made an already difficult situation, alot more complicated. My question to you is, what the hell should i do?i want her and i cant stop thinkin about her.. what do i DOOOO? should i leave it, and if she feels the same, she'll come after me... OR , should i give her the "now or never" ?