Discussion in 'Fitness & Nutrition' started by DCyamaha, Jan 30, 2006.
then complains about me going to gym 5 days a week (3 day split, 2 days cardio)
toss her on the street?
i just tell em, either get your ass in the gym or its over
hmm, shoulda been more specific
my SO = wife
Try to make her see that you're concerned about her heatlh and not how she looks. That's the best way to do it. If you already have a healthy lifestyle and she doesn't support it, then it's going to obviously be much harder. I managed to get a girl who ate fast food all the time and never exercised going to the gym and eating healthier because I expressed concern for her health long term.
yeah, i've tried that. She sees right thru it and says "oh so you think i'm fat, blah blah" (big argument ensues)
not really many options. She is obviously insecure, and she is afraid that if you keep on improving the way you look that you'll be too good for her.
Sseriously dude, if the bitch isn't happy, then she can leave.
Yeah, i think this is the best option.
Oh, uh... go back in time and don't marry her?
If she doesn't believe you when you say you're concerned about her health you two have some deeper issues to resolve.
you get a prenup or what?
then just say it. You're getting fat. seriously. It's a statement and if it's true you can't hardly argue about it.
Personally I don't want my wife at my gym. but if I did all I'd have to do is say "there were these really skinny blondes staring at me today at the gym, REALLY SKINNY" and then not give it up for a week or two.
what do you expect from this thread?
leave her if she isn't going to changeher ways
ehh, shes tried the gym and doesn't like it, but she has that "firm" DVD collecion thing that she used for a month, and then stopped
she does nothing for herself.
I had that problem with my ex. it ended up being one of the big stumbling points in our relationship. Once I got sick and my health became my #1 concern, it became blaringly obvious that she didn't give a fuck about her health, and it only made her continuing out-of-shapeness seem more in my face as I got more fit
this has to be shens ,noone on ot is married right?
and be straight up, say yes you are getting fat and that you don't feel like putting up with that bullshit. Tell her if you respect yourself she should also. Otherwise theres no point in a relationship because you will end up posting shit like this on boards all day and be unhappy.
His big dumb ass would say it too.
yeah ya know I never got to the point of just saying, "Yes bitch you are getting fatter and I can't stand it. Get in the gym or I'm gonna drop your ass"
But seriously..just try and make her see she needs to accept your desire to better your health and physique, and though you love her just the way she is (heh) and won't make her do anything she doesn't want, she needs to give you the same consideration.
Be better if you mention one of their names so you can just call it out during sex. This is of course after asking the wife to keep her shirt on this time, and insist on being in the dark.