So some background, my parents divorced and it was a messy split(courts lengthy etc) when I was just about to turn 18. The house was sold, and my mom took the money bought a smaller house and her and my sister lived there. I I went with my dad and my sister with mum. Anyways my dad supports me financially( i live by myself) and I work by him as well, I also go to school. So that's fine on that. But my mom has wasted all the money that she got from the divorce ( I was angry at her for a long time for handling the divorce in such a bad way). She bought pointless things like expensive tvs, tons of clothes, etc... my sister although living with her, does not help her with the expenses(my sister is older than I am). So now everytime I talk to my mom, she brings up her money problems. I feel bad for her, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to help her by giving what minimal money I have because she'll spend it on junk. I told her to sell the junk, but she's busy working a minimum wage job and has few gaps. I guess I feel sad for her situation, but she took A LOT of money that was within the family which was meant for all of us(my dad worked for all of it). I don't know, it's not really a question I guess, but more of a vent.