Wife and I have been married for 13 years. She has a 21 year old daughter from a relationship she had way before we met, in fact had her when she was only 16. Said step daughter doesn't live with us, she has her own place. Her Job has had her in our direct area for the last week so she has stayed at our House during this time....Two nights ago the unthinkable almost happened. It was about midnight or so, I was getting my nightly Sportscenter fix when I must have drifted off to sleep, next thing I know I wake up to the stepdaughter getting ready to give me a BJ. She pulled down my boxers and I woke up just before she started and I immediatelly stopped her. Now I have noticed she has given me the "eye" on several occasions, I'm 37 and not hard on the eyes but I mean come on! She is a very attractive young lady to say the least and I'd be a liar if I said I never noticed her in that way. Now I don't know what to do, I told her how wrong she was and that I very much loved her mother. Know I don't know if I shoud tell the wife, if I do it will surely cause her and her daughter to have severe issues, if I don't and she finds out later she will think I was trying to hide it????? Why me, I didn't ask for this shit, especially a few days before christmas.