Sorry this was orginally posted in the regular ot forum so i tried to keep it short and sweet as possible incase of flames. I'll try to elaborate more as people post, i'll let this be my more serious thread. So i'll cut it short, i find out through the grapevine from some friends that my gf a few months ago had a crush on this guy that is in this grp of friends. Problem is he lives in australia and we are in texas. I found it weird she would stay up ALL night to chat with this guy and sleep in the mornings and afternoons. She would do all this while staying with me So basically i'd be 5 feet from her sleeping, she'd kiss me goodnight and go and have raunchy chat with this guy in australia. Blah blah fast forward to current i get the logs from the guy she was chatting with, it's filled with shit like "i think about you when i have sex in the shower" and "i think of you when we have sex with my bf" "i want to come to see you so bad etc." that was verbatem. you know the usual shit. Then some details i just remembered a few months ago when this was happening. she had it in her mind she was hell bent on moving to australia to study for the semester. I mean hell bent, all of a sudden she woke up and that was her life's dream and i found that really fishy and odd. I guess montary reasons kept her from achieving so after a few weeks this was dropped. This all makes sense now. So i basically bitched her out and sent her home crying, she keeps wanting a second chance and says nothing really happened (which is true, but honestly i think if the opportunity was there it would have?) am i thinking irrationally? cliffs: gf has naughty "i think of you when i have sex with my bf" chat with guy in australia every night for a month while i sleep 5 feet from her. wants to move there to study out of the blue, is new life's goal. i find out from said guy chatting and i send her home. fuck that shit.