My roommate is not going to classes, and she had to withdraw last semester because of it. She's on probation and if she doesn't get her shit together she will be kicked out. She is having some family issues, which is why they let her withdraw instead of just failing (her dad is dying), but school isn't even a week in and she's already missing classes. I care about her so I don't want to see her fail, but I'm not her mother. I try to motivate her and I try to encourage her, but I don't know if there's something else I can do. It's hard enough keeping myself motivated and dealing with my own issues without having to deal with her's. So I guess basically, what should I do? I think I'll feel guilty for not saying anything. Should I try to have an intervention with her and if that doesn't work then just let it go maybe?