What's the chances of some day getting my ex back? v. 4yr relationship We just broke up last week, we had been together for 4 years, had lots of good times, some bad times. She broke up with me because she says she has a lot of personal issues to deal with, she started seeing a counselor and i think this is where this all sparked from, she was adopted and had some emotional issues, but i was always willing to work with her, but now her view is that she needs to be alone and deal with some things. I respected her dicision, the hardest thing to hear was that she told me she wouldn't be jelious if i dated around, which in turn meant that she wants to be free to date other people, this tears me apart, just the thought of her being with another guy makes my stomach cringe. I'm a pretty chill guy and have been giving her her space, i moved out etc. Talking last night, she told me she wanted to remain friends, we have a similar upbrining and both have some issues that only we understand about each other. My problem is I CANT get over her, i would do anything to go back and try to change her mind about this whole thing. So i guess my main question is, what is the chances of some day winning her back? I have been pretty miserable lately, i go over to her house every 2-3 days because we have a dog together which i love, and we talk for hours and hours, but she keeps her distance, which i can understand. anyways, before i start rambling, what is your guys opinion?