my girl left to UCSB to go to school. before she left, which was in september, we broke up after a 4-year relationship. i didnt see her since may and i finally got to see her for the first time last month. we hooked up that night when i went to visit. she stayed over for the night with me at a friend's apartment. we instantly clicked that night and made love. so i thought we were back together after that but we were not. a few weeks later i told a buddy of mine, cuz in mind i thought that we were back together so i told him about what occured that night. a friend also walked in on us but he was somewhat drunk that night. well that's when everything got worse. he wanted to know what happened and so my friend that i told mentioned it to the friend that walked in on us. he asked her about it. and now she's trippin' all over me. we had the biggest fall out this weekend the last time i saw her. i tried talking to her but she doesnt want to comply. i was pretty much distraught about our status before this night happened though. we talked about why we were breaking up. all she tells me is that she's gonna be busy with school and her sorority-delta delta delta. but it has nothing to do with another guy. she also told me she wants me to move on. ever since she moved to santa barbara, she's been drinking and smoking pot. she wants to be single. she said that she still loves me but cant see us together right now. she's been avoiding me so far. what can it really be? she tells me its not about a guy, but school and her sorority. whats so important about sororities??? im hurt and always ponder about this. im anxious to find out but its hard if she doesnt want to comply.