About 2 months ago I was cheated on by my gf of 5 years, who then broke up with me and is now seeing the guy she cheated on me with who was actually one of my friends. Anyway, fast forward to now. I bumped into a girl I used to work with in the city the other week and we talked for a bit then she came back home with me that night. Trouble was, I was really drunk and don't remember half the night. So I wake up with her, but didn't have the heart to tell her there really wasn't anything special between us, that it just happened. I decided instead to give her a chance and get to know her first before I make up my mind. Its been a week since then and we've hung out a bit, but so far I feel she is pretty clingy and taking the whole thing too seriously. Its starting to freak me out a bit because i'm in a position where I was enjoying being single prior to this. How should I tackle talking to her about it. I don't want to hurt her feelings and just tell her to 'f**k off' because she is a nice girl, but I need to find a way to explain to her i'm definitely not in a position to get serious with her. Ideas?