Ok a little back story. I met a girl about 4 months ago. She'd just gotten out of a bad relationship so wasn't looking for anything. Well it was going great we hung out a lot and had tons of fun together. 4 weeks ago we went on a road trip to the town where she grew up. We had an amazing time. Then last week she tells me she's been getting to know somebody for 2 weeks and were going to start seeing each other. I was cool with that but then I find out he doesn't want her seeing her guy friends. He could still see female friends thought. Fucking double standard. They fought a lot and broke up on Sunday. Monday she calls me at work and at the end tells me "I love you" of course I felt the same way so I said so. Then on Tuesday I find out that she babysat his dog overnight while he was at work. Ok, what the fuck! Then last night she didn't want to do anything because "she needed time alone". So I find out she's gone to see him and that they've gotten back together. She used to call me or msn me all day at work but today nothing. Its pissed me off so much I had to leave work and also took tomorrow off. I guess her friends were right and she is attracted to guys that won't treat her well. She once said that she didn't want to date because it would ruin the friendship. I was cool with that as long as we stayed friends. That doesn't seem to be the case however. I can tell you this though. I will not be there for her if things go sour with this asshat. I'm through with her only wanting me when things aren't going well for her. Should I try to stay friends with her or just tell her that I can't be the fallback guy all the time? I've never posted a thread in here but I did need to get this off my chest.