Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by ForgottenSpiral, Jan 24, 2010.
Poll is pretty self-explanatory.
but there's no poll
edit: yay, it appeared
You gotta wait, girl. Anyone who has made a poll would know the thread pops before the poll.
Patience isn't one of my strong points.
To answer the question, both would be deal breakers if they were done in a serious manner.
both deal breakers.
Punching = self-control and conflict issues
Saying they'd cheat = they're settling for you, which is a pretty big insult
Skewed both polls
1) Should indicate that it was post-sex for getting whiskey dick.
2) Should indicate that it's over a celebrity.
Skewed my ass. The statements cover the situations just fine.
so i answered neither mattered to me because i am assuming 2 things:
a - punch is playful.. obviously if a guy swung and punched me hard i'd be walking
b - person they are saying they'd cheat on is some sort of celeb.. if that's that case i couldn't give two shits less
If that were the case I wouldn't care either. The way FS worded it made it seem more serious.
The punch was out of frustration because person got whiskey dick, so hit his arm.
The "leaving for" is over a celebrity.
The point is that it isn't clearly serious or clearly in jest. So the ambiguity is intended.
oh vag drama!
I know what the threads were about but the poll question didn't include that info so I didn't answer with those situations in mind. I just answered the question I was asked.
I just answered figuring it was based on the minor spectrum of these incidents... not the major, deal breaking
That is what I answered.
I've never had to deal with whiskey dick, but I like sex and I would be pretty unhappy that he drank himself to the point where he couldn't perform. I dislike sloppy drunks.
I know the bf gets whiskey dick if he drinks to a certain point, so I don't even try for sex or give in to his advances because I know I'll just get frustrated.
Being punched in the shoulder is worse for me. We have agreed there is to be no violence at all in our relationship so for that kind of thing to happen is not on. Even play punching crosses a line and I know my husband would never do it to me and I respect him so much I would never do it to him.
As for the 'I would leave you for'? We all have our celeb crushes, but we both understand it's pure lust and we have no idea what that person is actually like so our attraction is based on how we perceive them. So due to that we would never ever say we would leave each other for the said person. It's just not something we joke about
Your relationship seems so damn boring. I LOVE getting my dude all riled up and wrestling with him. He eventually gets tired of my crap so I end up getting pinned down and
I don't think I could be with a woman who I couldn't be rough with.
I have had a very physical relationship before and it constantly went too far and become domestic violence. I get the desire to be man handled and I do miss it to an extent. But what my husband and I have is something much deeper than I have ever experienced before and I would never do anything to jeopardies that. My husband is a big softy and any hope I had for a rape fantasy is out the window. But he makes up for it in other ways and we are in now way boring. You would be surprised
I love being playful/rough. In fact I think I'm gonna go pounce in a few minutes again
There is a huge difference between being abused and rough play, that you can't see that is seriously fucked.
And what I have with my SO is something amazing too, just because we play rough doesn't mean that it isn't anything less.
As said above, don't get me wrong, I have no problems with my husband being rough with me. He is just a huge softy so even being pinned down during sex results in him constantly asking me if I am okay, if he is hurting me. It's adorable that he cares so much about me and makes such a strong effort to never hurt me.
No and I wasn't saying that rough = abuse and I am not saying what my husband and I have and what you and your SO have is different - you are.
You called our relationship boring. All I am trying to say is that it isn't boring and that we do in fact have a wonderful relationship and I feel loved and appreciated. Not that my relationship is better because.... but that my relationship isn't better it's just different and this is how it is different and this is how I feel.
Being told your relationship is boring isn't that fun you know