So I whats everyone think about women in relationships actively pursuing free drinks from guys? what about just accepting a drink offered? I really dont like it. Its an unfair thing to do to the guy to lead him on and take his money and it just doesn't reflect well on the girl that she would take advantage of someone like that. In addition I feel that it is disrespectful because as well as the alcohol girls enjoy the attention and ego boost that is inevitable when some poor sap waste $50 on her bar tab. The girls try to tell me "not all guys are like you and are so concerned with sex" I say fuck that. Whatever the guy is after, sex, love, just someone to talk to, its dishonest to use him for drinks no matter what hes after and no matter what rationalizations you make, if you were to tell the guy flat out "I don't like you and you have no chance whatsoever, but ill stand here and let you waste your night as long as the free drinks keep comming" The other side of this is that in the party phase of life, a girls bartab can be a significant dent in her budget. If you go out frequently, a $250+ weekly bartab is really not that hard to rack up. If you are dating a girl and you don't want to pay for all her drinks, can you really tell he that you expect her to stop going out as much give up necesities to afford to drink even thought there are plenty of stupid guys to pay for it for them? Lets just get this out of the way. In this thread ONLY talk about people who like going out and drinking and eating and wasting lots of money partying. If you wouldn't date a partier this thread simply doesnt apply to you. I would never date someone who didn't like to party.