For example, someone is mad at you for whatever reason (you were rude, you left them hanging, you forgot about something important to them, you put them second etc.), what happends? In my family I was taught that you're not supposed to speak to the person for a few days, then you pretend everything is fine untill the other person forgets, or you just never talk to them again or you carry a grudge for a few months. Is there a better way to deal with this? Does it matter if the person is family, S.O. or a friend? How do you guys deal with situations in which someone supposedly close to you puts you second or lets you down, and how do you deal with it when you let someone else down? I'm pretty sure I was taught the wrong way to do it.