Long story short, I just got out of a 5 year relationship which was on and off again, but finally found out she was cheating on me. So I kicked her ass to the curb. But I have since moved back to a place where I don't know many poeple and need to get out and meet some people. Where do you guys do it? Bars/work/activites? Also, what kind of things does a girl want said to her when a guy is trying to meet/hookup/get her #/whatever.