I've never posted in here but it's hard to talk about this with people i know because... they've all been around this situation for too long and have already formed their opinions. Anyway, I've been seeing a girl on and off for about 2 years, mostly on. We got together when i was 16. I had many "relationships" with other girls earlier in high school but they were completely meaningless. She's the only girl I've ever had sex with, the only one i spent serious time with, etc. We broke up my senior year but ended up spending alot of time together this summer. I feel like i fell more in love with her this summer than i ever was before... but later in august we talked and decided it shouldnt be exclusive because it would fail in a college atmosphere, even though we are at the same school (we didn't decide to come here together, it was mostly for financial reasons. ) So anyway that leaves me in a shitty situation... she now has another guy, i kinda have something with another girl, but i don't feel anything for her. i still love the ex, and sometimes she acts like she's still into me a bit but i have too much pride to explore it, and it's really not what i want anyway. It's just leftover feelings, i guess. But where do i go? i don't want another relationship with her, but it just won't go away, and if it won't go away, does that mean something? or do i just suck at getting over her?