Back when i was 18 i was more of the player type of guy...then i dated a girl for 6 years 19-25 & that ended badly...then recently dated a girl for 6 months. Now, I am 26 years old & just want a good relationship & eventually settle down. The girl I dated for 6 years was like my best friend..we did everything together, yet i was very attracted to her & great sex etc. so, i basically want a girl who has similar interests as me... sports (doesnt have to be real into it but i dont want a straight up foo foo girly girl), i like a girl who can dress up & act like a lady, but doesn't mind getting dirty now & then.. DO NOT want a girl who loves attention or parties constantly... but going to bars a few times a month is about like me. i'm not religious, so church is not an option. i love working out more than anything...but all the girls at my gym are high schoolers or older ladies it seems.. i mean its easy to meet girls at bars, but is that a bad idea in the long run? any suggestions?