After going out tonight, I've realized that I'm much shyer than I thought, and I suck at meeting people (especially at parties). This problem is simply compounded by the fact that I don't drink. All of my activities (stats major, bball, AA meetings, lifting weights, working @ computer lab, & OT) take place in a male-dominated arena. I need an activity that I can enjoy with a decent male/female ratio where I can learn to socialize like a normal person. I'm 23 years old today (it's my birthday) and almost finshed with college. Those who have friends, please help. Cliffs: Where can I make female friends, meet women and learn to socialize that doesn't involve drinking.