GF of 2 years is leaving for good... she's flying out of the country in two hours. We haven't talked since Saturday. And we may never will. It all started this last fateful Saturday morning. We were both up early, and had decided to meet up. She said I should leave right then, and I said I was still too sleepy. I told her she should wake me up by calling me at 1pm and we would meet up at 2pm instead. She begrudingly agreed. I woke up at 2:30 with no missed calls, and immediately call to tell her that I was going to be late. She was angry but told me to be there asap. I drive an hour to her local mall (she lives 5 minutes away.) When I got there, she still wasn't there. I called her and she feigned sleepiness in the way girls can be passive-agressive about these things and said that I should just wait there until she feels less tired. (I can't actually go visit her for unrelated reasons.) I wait 15 mins and call her again. She says she's still tired. I leave. She calls me half an hour later and tells me she came and couldn't find me anywhere. She said she was mad at me for ditching her. I told her I'm not going to be toyed-with and play her mind games. She says that our relationship is over if I don't apologize to her before her flight. I laughed and said I was the one who's owed an apology. We haven't talked since then. And now her flight out of the country leaves in two hours. We had an exciting weekend planned when she comes back at the end of the week. And every weekend and a few weekdays until the new year. Looks like all of it will be canceled. Who's the asshole in this relationship?