every time i meet a new girl i like, i just cling to them. i get plenty of attention from other girls but if i like someone, no one else seems to matter. im in a situation right now where i like this girl and she likes me, but she recently got out of a bad relationship and isnt ready for anything yet. i dont know if its because im impatient or what, but the fact that we arent on the same page (me wanting a relationship and her not being ready) is driving me crazy. i feel like i see everything in black and white. like if shes not ready NOW, i feel like its just never going to happen or something. i also tend to overanalyze everything which drives me crazy which in turn changes my attitude and the way i act around her and kind of pushes her away sometimes. sometimes i dont know how to act around her and im not myself at all. i feel like i need instant gratification or something and i hate not knowing whats gonna happen in the future such as her just meeting someone else out of the blue or whatever. what the f*ck should i do? sometimes i wonder if i could see other people and just wait for her to be ready, but like i said when i like someone, no one else matters. i know i fall too hard too fast and im impatient and thats not a good combo. the only thing that helps me is when i think about the girl i liked before and how i felt this same way about her, but now they arent nearly as important to me as they were so i figure this one will end up the same. but i dont want to keep going through this stupid pattern over and over. i need to change SOMETHING. so i dunno, i cant figure out how to fix this and im just wondering if anyone can help.