If you're seeing someone and want to break it off, are you the person that avoids having that talk? You just break ties with them, avoid them, and turn cold with them? I just don't understand the point of that. If you don't want to see someone anymore, why not just have a short talk with them and be honest about what's going on? This just recently happened with me. I know the circumstances and I'm 90% sure I know why it has ended, but she never had a little talk with me. So because of that, I'm wondering exactly why it has ended. The fact that she hasn't talked to me about it makes me feel like I did something, but in reality I know I didn't. I tend to overthink things. But it's just aggravating-- have a five minute talk with me about what's going on in your head just to put my mind at ease. It isn't hard and I'm an adult-- I can handle anything you tell me.