not being able to find a good man? And then as it turns out, they wont/dont ever approach men? I mean, Imagine if you bought every product you buy based on the solicitation and advice of a salesman. Chances are, you would be satisfied with some of the stuff, but other stuff you wouldnt like because you bought based on the quality of the sales pitch, not on the quality of the product which you didnt discover until later. Going to the store and actively picking what you want is a much more effective strategy than letting the salesman always pick you and try to sell you something you dont need or want. Not doing any of the choosing yourself takes you out of the game, and as a result, you suffer. Opinions?