I'm deployed to Iraq. I've been in a good relationship with my girlfriend for over a year. Lately she's been getting restless and wanting to go back to 'the city life' where she's from.. I met her after she moved down to my town to get away from that same city life..... She says she wants to be with me forever, all that jazz, but is she really committed if she wants to go? She says she wants to go back to school up there and finish up her degree--To better our future together.... I'm afraid this is the beginning of the end of us together. What should I do? I don't want to spend any more time apart from her than we already have.... I don't want to come home on leave and our place place together is gone, and when I finally get home for summer she's back up there Maybe I deserve it since I left her for this deployment, I don't know, but it's tearing me apart.