why does she do this?

the girl i dated for 6 years, we broke up last february b/c i found out she was hanging out w/ some dude & basically found some emails that were not good.

i dont talk to her, text her or anything (shes dating the kid she was talking to when we were dating) & out of no where she comments on one of my facebook pictures that is like 4 years old & was there when we were dating "nice picture, lol"

what's the point of commenting on a picture that was there when we dated...the picture is AT LEAST 4 yrs old (surely she's seen it before)?

 

Facebook antics =

Don't bother with it.

 

delete the picture and ignore her.

jesus

 

It probably bothers her that you don't think of her anymore. Delete the picture and ignore her.

 

i do think of her though..all teh time. i just dont bother calling/texting, emailing etc...

 

If you give her even a milisecond of your time to say hi, she wins. She knows she is still on your mind and will know that anytime she needs attention she can come to you.

Good job not calling/texting. It's the way to go. I know it sucks, but you have to pretend like they don't even exist.

I'm going through the same thing you are, along with a lot of other people im sure. My Ex texted me today "just saying HI since i'm in the area" (her grandparents live in the same town as me). I just put my phone in a drawer, and walked away/went outside to enjoy the snow and clear my head.

 

its been four years. get over her. go fuck ten other women

 

what is wrong with you? you're an athlete. go fuck some cheerleaders. she just wants attention. you gave her validation for 6 years and she feels somethings missing. the second you say hi she'll feel better about herself and go on her way. she'll never want to get back with you.

 

she is trying to get you to respond back to her

dont do it

 

Yup, just continue to ignore her. She is just trying to get a response out of you.

 

my ex keeps coming into the restaurant I bartend at, with the chick she cheated on me with... fucking whores trying to rub shit in

 

it's been 10 months..
the picture she commented on was 4 years old.

 

same difference.

ignore her ass. go do ur own shit with your life. delete that picture if it really bothers you.

 

are you a girl or a guy?

 

Better yet just delete your facebook account entirely. Facebooks sucks complete dick.

 

ignore ignore ignore

 

guy

was in a relationship with this girl for 4 years...

about a year and half in, we both started working at the same place. This lesbian at work decided she wanted my ex. Basically spent the next 2.5 years trying to sabotage our relationship. I've heard mixed stories about them making out at some point around the start of all that bull shit, but don't know if it was true. If not physically, she was certainly carrying on some sort of relationship with this chick for 2.5 years behind my back until my ex finally got up the courage to break up with me, to be on her "own", start being a slut, and now is in a lesbian relationship. There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the jist of it.

 

ignore dude.

 

that's hot

 

i mean

 

to gauge your reaction, obviously

 

OR....

just don't be one of those people who posts every little detail of their life on the website.

 

It doesn't sound like she's a stalker ex, more like a want attention ex.

If you can't ignore her, then delete your account. Simple as that. Just do one or the other!!

 

I don't understand how anyone can do this in the first place... I guess if you think what happens on the internet has no consequence on your offline life

 

not really... the other chick is an absolute troll. Shaped like a bowling ball, ungodly ugly, etc. Absolutely unattractive.