It's been a long enough time, 10 years to be exact. The only person I ever said I loved to, besides my family and friends, the only person that was absolutely perfect in every way, etc. At this point, not sure if I'm stuck on the actual person or if its' the ideal image of her built up in my head from 10 years ago, but I can't let her go. And it might actually be preventing me from letting anyone else get close, since in my subconscious, I have this perfect person built up...and unconsciously I start comparing someone new to her, and the new person loses out every single time. Any suggestions on how to get over someone, how to break up the perfect image of them you have in your head, how to get past it, how not to let it affect your potential future relationship, etc? I am all ears here... Damn it love can be so complex.