So I met this girl and we have been each other for about six weeks now. She's great, in fact this is probably the first time I have felt really good about the the possibilities of the person I have been with. She is 23 and I am 28. She hasn't had alot of relationship or sexual experience; I'm her third sexual partner and she hasn't had a whole lot of sex in general. I've not been with a large number of women but I've had very long relationships so our sexual 'comfort' levels don't really match up as of yet. To the point, the sex isn't great. Here are the facts... Good: 1. I can make her come really easily. 2. We generally 'click' during sex. Bad: 1. She comes quickly and doesn't want to go any further than that 2. She doesn't give BJs. 3. She is generally uncomforable naked around me. As soon as sex is over she is putting her clothes back on. So often times we start fooling around and by the time I am aroused she has come and I'm SOL. She 'feels bad' about me not coming and wishes she could give me a BJ but she can't she says. It grosses her out. She'll even wipe precum off me before we get close so it doesn't get on her. I'm being very understanding and not giving her guilt trips or anything but it sucks to get all turned on and then she comes and I'm left to just shrink. I'm assuming it is merely experience related and she'll get more comfortable and adventurous as time passes but for now it is frustrating.... Cliffs: No cliffs.