I'm so frustrated right now. Been friends with this girl for a while, but the last few months we just started talking again. Her signals are so mixed up all the time. Half the time it seems like she wants to be friends, half the time she wants more. We live 4 hours apart, so finally last weekend I meet her 2.5 hours from my house for a night out to some bars with some other people. That night again real on and off. We make plans to go out to dinner tonight. She sounded real excited about it. Yesterday she asks me to stop by her work (restaraunt) if I wasn't busy on my way to go out with other friends. I do, and tell her to come hang when she gets off and she says ok. Get a call later and shes 'tired'. Today i ask what time she wants to eat. She says around 8. I offer to come pick her up and she says she will let me know when shes ready (went horse riding today). Still no word from her and its 8. I dont get it. Im about to write this girl off.