my girlfriend is having such a hard time with this. i've been recently promoted and transferred to a differnent location in my job. it's 80 miles from my current location and my girlfriend is just not taking it well. i don't get most of it. yes i have to move to be within a reasonable commute. i'm not about to commute 160 miles everyday. so tomorrow i'm packin up and moving closer to my office. my whole argument is that i hardly, at all, consider this a long distance relationship but she's treating it as if i were moving across the country and we'll never see each other. grant it we won't be spendin as much time together as we have been the past 8 months (which has been essentially at least a couple hours everyday almost) but i suspect at least on the weekends we'll be together, which is plenty for me but obviuosly not for her. she cries, she pulls shit like i'm doing this to get away from her and i just want to be alone. i didn't ask for a promotion and especially not a transfer, but i'm certainly not going to deny it. help!!