it was an interesting question posed to me by a friend the other day. i'm curious as to what others have to say and figured this is a better spot than the main forum. my answer was no because i'm not attracted to her. she said that was shallow of me because she might be a really great person and i'm not even willing to give her a chance. i responded by saying that even though she might be great, if i'm not attracted to her, then at most we can be friends. i feel that if there is no physical attraction, why would i date her? if there is no desire for physical intimacy, to me, that just seems like a friendship. furthermore, there is more to attraction than looks, but looks do play a part. i would still date a girl others consider average or maybe unattractive if i'm attracted to her because that's what matters. likewise, a girl may be physically attractive, but if i can't stand to be around her, then i would not date her. that is what i consider to be shallow. dating someone for her looks regardless of her personality. so, what do you all think? EDIT: to those of you who say no, does that make you shallow?