Ok I'll try and make this quick. I've been dating this girl for 8 months now. Around the 3 months we had issues, we stopped talking for 3 days, but things got back to normal. She was worried about me having to travel back to Ontario to live. So it caused obvious tension on our fresh relationship. Anyway things were going fine, or so I thought. So the past few weeks, this guy was messaging her like "when are you on msn" and she had told me about him in the past. They had sex together the first time they met. At the beginning of our relationship this also hurt my confidence when she repeatetly said I wasn't as good. Well now he's coming back in her life and for reasons she doesn't know or won't tell me she wants to meet him. I am very uncomfertable about this and the only way I even knew about this was by her facebook. She had logged into her account from my laptop and it saved the password. We have basically the same display picture so I didn't even know I was in hers till I checked the Inbox since it had 1 new message... well guess who it was from... Aparently they were suppose to meet on the weekend, but she was "tooo busy". She also said if she didn't have to go to the island this weekend they would meet up. She did this all behind my back because she says she was trying to "not hurt me". I am hurt... I've told her how hurt I am but I'm really hurt. She claims it wasn't for anything bad, but I can't see past who he is and was to her. I don't believe they were "friends".... I just don't know what to do and I just need a place to vent. I am really hurt right now and I am not sure what to do.