my boyfriend broke up with me today. I am totally in shock. Things were good, we talked about moving in together a couple weeks ago, some of you may remember my thread about that. We have little spats and whatnot but its been a great relationship. I came home from work today and noticed all his cd's were gone (he had been putting them all on my itunes so they were all around my computer). then there was a letter on my bed. he broke up with me in a fucking letter! the jist of the letter is that he feels like he has learned all he can from us, and that he feels like he is getting too comfortable in our relationship and needs to be challenged and to continue growing emotionally and spiritually, and this isnt doing it. now this is the part that Im really struggling with: he also said im the best girlfriend he has ever had, this has been the best relationship he has ever had and he loves me more than he has loved anyone else. I cant see how he can justify giving that up, if its true. I talked to his roommate for a while and she pointed out that he hasnt had a relationship last over six months since he got divorced four years ago. she thinks he has committment issues. I think he has impossible expectations and as soon as the relationship got real, he got tired of it. Im sad, heartbroken, and wanted to get it out. thanks ot.