As some of you know im dating a woman with a child. Last night when she was drunk(shes hyper honest when shes drunk) she starts telling me all of this stuff about being independent and falling hard and fast but not having the energy to commit to a relationship. Every road block she threw up ended up with her saying "I know ur not like that " or "but i know ur ok with that" or sumthing that negated HER OWN PREVIOUS STATEMENT!!!! So right now I don't know wtf is going on. She said also "Right now I can see myself being married and in a family and that making me perfectly happy ...but its hard to put my feelings into words right now " So im still confused as shit and hoping i can see her tonight so we can talk it out soberly. Someone PLZ give me something to say when I see her tonight. editbviously tell her how i feel but i need help gettin it all into perpective b4 i go over there.