okay here's the story (in cliffs because its so much easier that way) 1. Gf comes home from washington DC (i'm in college now 3hrs away from her, she's still in hs) 2. Gives me the third degree about being jealous of her new obsession with washinton DC and her week of mock congress (some organized event, go figure) 3. After 15 min of prying she flips out and confesses she grinded with another guy (i'm not mad just annoyed she was beating around the bush) 4. She wanted me to be mad at her for it and i couldnt for the actual dancing but for misleading me at the beginning 5. I call her and tell her that i'm not going to stay angry and if she really wants something done about this, she's more than welcome to take a couple days and think about everything. relationship's been going on for 8+ months now, 9 months on friday, and i confess, the best relationship i've ever been in (up until this point). This is the first time anything like this has ever happened, and apparently it was an anonymous grinding, the guy didnt even remember her name ... I trust her that nothing else happened so what should i do?