and there wasn't even a thread in The Closet encouraging our closeted gay and lesbian lurkers to break those closet doors off... Well, this is it... Ladies and gentlemen, don't be afraid... Do it... Take those steps to be free. Make that move away from pretenting and toward happiness. I know of one OTer who just told me that he took the initial steps toward coming out. If there are others, please know that your brothers and sisters on this site are here to support you. Aren't you tired of lying to yourself and everyone around you?